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		<title>Just Say &#8220;I&#8217;m Sorry&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Nov 2009 16:11:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Guy Harris</dc:creator>
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		<title>Conflict Can Be Good</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2009 23:44:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Guy Harris</dc:creator>
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		<title>Conflict Escalation &#8211; 5 Ways to Quickly Make a Conflict Worse</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2009 16:58:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Guy Harris</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This post is now here. I have moved my blog to RecoveringEngineer.com. Here are excerpts from my two most recent posts. Please join me at my new blog. Subscribe to RSS headline updates from: Powered by FeedBurner]]></description>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t Get Angry Because They Don&#8217;t Understand</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Jul 2009 14:27:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Guy Harris</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m running a bit behind in my preparations for a trip today, and most of my blog readers are not my newsletter readers. So, I&#8217;m posting my most recent newsletter article here today. I&#8217;ll be back for my next scheduled post this Thursday. ________________________________ When you have explained something a number of times to the [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What Are You Afraid Of?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2009 13:30:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Guy Harris</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yoda On Fear Yoda Rap (sort of funny) In The Phantom Menace, the great Jedi master Yoda says: &#8220;Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering.&#8221; Fear in one or both parties is often the root of conflict, and we all fear something. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What To Do When Everyone You Work With Is An Idiot</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Jun 2009 20:23:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Guy Harris</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If everyone that you work with is an idiot, I have a suggestion for you: Check your attitude. Or, as I heard a speaker say one time, &#8220;Give your head a shake.&#8221; In Winning with People, John Maxwell defines what he calls the Bob Principle: &#8220;If Bob has a problem with everyone, then Bob is [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Approach Drowning People With Caution</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 04 May 2009 16:02:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Guy Harris</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I met someone lately who I like and who, at the same time, has some behaviors that really frustrate me. He seems incapable of restraining his desire to speak, and he consistently acts in ways that draw attention to himself without regard for any other people present. In short, he talks too much, and he [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Use Intentional Silence To Understand Others</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2009 18:52:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Guy Harris</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Communication Skills]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Several years ago, my friend, client, and colleague, Tom Butera called my office shortly after driving by a billboard with the following statement on it: Listen and silent have the same letters. This statement struck me that day and has stuck with me ever since. I have thought about the implications of this simple observation. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Learn From the Past, Don&#8217;t Stay There</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Apr 2009 13:30:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Guy Harris</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This post is a follow-up to last week&#8217;s Monday Momentum Message. A key tenet of effective conflict resolution is that conflict resolution discussions are more productive when they focus on finding future actions that will fix the current relationship problem. Sadly, many of us gravitate towards discussing what has or has not already happened rather [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Positively Impact The Future</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 15:00:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Guy Harris</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you look through my blog, you will probably notice that Tammy Lenski is one of my favorite conflict resolution bloggers. She consistently has great content at Conflict Zen. This weekend, I noticed this post where she mentions that she will be speaking at a Women&#8217;s Leadership Summit in Manchester, NH in June. Her post [...]]]></description>
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