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		<title>Stop Long Enough to Really Understand</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2009 15:12:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Guy Harris</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This post is now here. I have moved my blog to RecoveringEngineer.com. Here are excerpts from my two most recent posts. Please join me at my new blog. Subscribe to RSS headline updates from: Powered by FeedBurner]]></description>
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		<title>Why I Don&#8217;t Want to Be a Tolerant Person</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Sep 2009 20:07:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Guy Harris</dc:creator>
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		<title>How Does The Nature Of Your Relationship Affect Conflict Resolution?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Aug 2009 13:52:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Guy Harris</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This post is more of a question than a statement. I&#8217;m looking for input and feedback on this question: How does the nature of your relationship with another person affect the way you handle/view/approach resolving a conflict with them? Like many things in life, I have an opinion on this topic. I would just like [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Social Media, Language, and Conflict</title>
		<link>http://principledriven.com/blog/communication-skills/social-media-language-and-conflict/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jul 2009 15:25:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Guy Harris</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This post is now here. I have moved my blog to RecoveringEngineer.com. Here are excerpts from my two most recent posts. Please join me at my new blog. Subscribe to RSS headline updates from: Powered by FeedBurner]]></description>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t Get Angry Because They Don&#8217;t Understand</title>
		<link>http://principledriven.com/blog/mindset/self-control/dont-get-angry-because-they-dont-understand/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Jul 2009 14:27:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Guy Harris</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m running a bit behind in my preparations for a trip today, and most of my blog readers are not my newsletter readers. So, I&#8217;m posting my most recent newsletter article here today. I&#8217;ll be back for my next scheduled post this Thursday. ________________________________ When you have explained something a number of times to the [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Do I Really Have to Work With People?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2009 16:46:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Guy Harris</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Mindset]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[avoiding conflict]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I prefer to be alone. I value people. I respect people. I can appreciate people. I don&#8217;t necessarily like people. I am doubly task-oriented. That means I have significantly more task orientation than people orientation. I don&#8217;t want bad things to happen to people. I don&#8217;t want people to be harmed. I just prefer to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Approach Drowning People With Caution</title>
		<link>http://principledriven.com/blog/mindset/self-control/approach-drowning-people-with-caution/</link>
		<comments>http://principledriven.com/blog/mindset/self-control/approach-drowning-people-with-caution/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 May 2009 16:02:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Guy Harris</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Communication Skills]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I met someone lately who I like and who, at the same time, has some behaviors that really frustrate me. He seems incapable of restraining his desire to speak, and he consistently acts in ways that draw attention to himself without regard for any other people present. In short, he talks too much, and he [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Use Intentional Silence To Understand Others</title>
		<link>http://principledriven.com/blog/mindset/self-control/use-intentional-silence-to-understand-others/</link>
		<comments>http://principledriven.com/blog/mindset/self-control/use-intentional-silence-to-understand-others/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2009 18:52:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Guy Harris</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Communication Skills]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Several years ago, my friend, client, and colleague, Tom Butera called my office shortly after driving by a billboard with the following statement on it: Listen and silent have the same letters. This statement struck me that day and has stuck with me ever since. I have thought about the implications of this simple observation. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Focus on Other People to Improve Your Communication Effectiveness</title>
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		<comments>http://principledriven.com/blog/communication-skills/focus-on-other-people-to-improve-your-communication-effectiveness/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2009 18:17:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Guy Harris</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Communication Skills]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://principledriven.com/blog/?p=381</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I just read a great post about the value of focusing on other people during communications over on Bert Decker&#8217;s Blog. I recommend that you read this post. It is full of great insights about the power of focusing on other people when you attempt to communicate with them. Successful conflict resolution revolves around and depends [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Clarity Reduces Conflict</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Mar 2009 15:37:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Guy Harris</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Misunderstanding and miscommunication cause many of the conflicts we experience in life. As a result, working to reduce misunderstanding and miscommunication forms the foundation for much of my work to assist teams in their efforts to reduce and resolve conflicts. When we work for clarity of communication, clarity of understanding, and clarity of intention, we [...]]]></description>
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